Ride Em Cowboy!

"I'm tired of breaking in these men for you to ride them home in the sunset"

Not that this came as a surprise, because nothing surprises me anymore, but yet another man/boy that was a commitment phob while I dated him, all of a sudden has a serious relationship now?!? I guess I could chalk it up to "He's just not that into you"...... but seriously why do men insist on staying around, texting, calling....etc. to keep you on the line as back up. Just let it go...if you don't have what I need, then move on and save us both the confusion of the "back and forth game"! I refuse to be someones back up plan and for god sake, have a little integrity and don't allow someone to be that person in your life, just because you are not secure enough to be alone. And I am not just pointing the finger at men, women are just as guilty too. I know first hand, women will play the same game so that there is always someone to keep the other side of the bed warm or someone to talk to at night!

I have always been the "cool girl, guys girl, atypical woman" and have prided myself on these characteristics but maybe this is whats putting me in this monotoneous cycle. Guys almost seemed relieved when they meet me and find out I am not the "typical woman" and say, yea your cool. I very much enjoy my space, like being independent, and don't get worked up over silly things. This is mostly dedicated to the fact that I dated and lived with a complete sociopath who wiped me clean emotionally, mentally, physically and not to mention financially! For those of you who do not know the definition of a sociopath, a few of the characteristics are:

-Manipulative and Conning- appear to be charming but are hostile and domineering

-Grandiose Sense of Self - arrogant and feels entitled to things

-Lake of Remorse - no shame or guilt for treating people like crap

-Secretive- aka cheats on you

-Irresponsibility - no concern with wrecking peoples lives and places blame on others

So I digress........but this would explain why I am the way I am now and refuse to go back down the path of "your so charming, no one will ever know you cut me up into little peices and buried me in the backyard." Back to the topic at hand, I know I am not the only woman out there that feels like she has done all the work to get a man to "marriage material" just to have him end up with someone else. I have been the stylist...(Mr. Lee tappered jeans), psychiatrist, private chef, life consultant, and best of all WRANGLER....to lasso these boys in and turn them into men! And yes I am taking the credit for the progress that some of the boys have made, but at least they learned a lesson!

Fact of the matter is.... instead of trying to turn these boys into men and make them ready for something they are not, just let them be! If I got paid for all the consulting I did over the years, I would be a millionaire but instead I am a boy wrangler and a man producer! Congrats to all the ladies that have benefited from my hard work and knowledge and maybe one day I will reap the rewards of your work...that is if you did any!!