Un-User Friendly

Perhaps it is I, that is not so "user friendly".....

When I started writing these blogs, I actually started on a different site that was not exactly "user friendly" or Jennie friendly! I wouldn't consider myself to be technologically challenged but if its further than a click away, I probably won't figure it out. So, like always...my thoughts drifted to somewhere else and I asked myself.....self, am I 'user friendly"?!?

Everything we have now is portable, convenient, fast and most important of all user friendly! If we have to think to hard about how to send a mass text or update a Facebook status then its just not easy enough. I am really starting to think the same goes for dating as well. So, I may be a little complicated, hard to read, stubborn, guarded and independent. And for some guys....who's names will remain anonymous (for now) they throw in the white flag when you don't just give it all up the first few dates, and I don't mean sex, I mean all of you, your heart!! They don't want to take the time to find out what it is that makes you special or have to work for it. In fact, underneath this hard exterior is a compassionate, generous, tender hearted woman who is a hopeless romantic and full of dreams. But not everyone gets that Jennie....you have to earn it, and why not! I'm not a scratch off lotto ticket, where you win the prize after a few tries!

Men and women both, would rather date those that are "user friendly" who they know will always ditch their plans for them, go along with whatever they want, and compromise their values and morals just to make it easy to have them! I've always believed that anything worth having is worth working for! Who wants a "fast food relationship" that's just easy and convenient, that you can cram into a few minutes of your day. If I am going to share my life with someone, then I will take the time to learn what buttons not to push and which ones turn you on and off.....grrrr!

Perhaps I do not fit the profile for a "User Friendly" girlfriend and I may require you to read the directions before you try to make me work for you, but when its all said and done, all the pieces will fit together and you wont have to worry about it falling apart!